I was thinking about a few of the items on the list this past weekend actually. My thought was, I don’t want to be a bad example to my readers – writing huge long lists of “good things” to read and buy and then doing nothing with it. Other than maybe feel good in the moment of accumulation.
You know that feeling of purpose that comes from making a huge commitment to something (similar to New Year’s resolutions or an online challenge)?
The feeling that fades into a mild to moderate shade of guilt when life keeps moving and little to none of the items purchased actually get used?
Yeah, I don’t like that feeling, but I have dealt with it more times than I want to talk about.
So, I want to bring one item from the list into the light today and say that I’m actually using it. It was really a wise purchase, and I hope that encourages you to look into the good things you’ve bought before and see if there’s anything you can still use too.
It’s never too late to be a good steward of your stuff.
Making the commitment to purchase this eBook guide forced me to work through some major hurdles I had all lined up – keeping me from any sort of crafting in our home education.
My 3 hurdles:
First, I’m not a crafter at all.
I kind of loathe foam cut-outs, glitter glue, and construction paper. (There. I said it.)
I tried liking these things when my firstborn was a toddler because I thought that was what the ideal mom would do. My husband made me a whole piece of furniture to contain my mass of craft stuff.
I let my daughter take things out of the closet sometimes. When I did, the cleaning up drove me crazy. So, during one of our moves – I threw everything away.
Goodbye crafting. And good riddance.
I didn’t realize it at the time, but I had confused “busy toddler activities” with “any crafting supply.” Let me tell you that there is a huge difference. (I’ll write a post on my current toddler busy activities.)
Second, there has been a certain level of crafting since then in each of the curricula packages we’ve used. So, I’ve done my best to be engage and involved – excited to make and create – buying the glue sticks and glitter (heaven help me, I hate glitter) all over again.
The problem I created as I attempted to introduce the right crafts at the right time was: I gathered everything necessary for the entire year in advance (wanting to be prepared) before I knew if my kids even liked the crafts.
So, I was stuck with an entire alphabet-based curriculum printed out (times 2) all organized in a file folder box that my kids didn’t like and wouldn’t use.
I have since vowed to stop printing things in advance for my kids to trace, cut, or craft because I wasted so much money trying to do it all when my kids were in the preschool stage.
Third, I see now that my distaste for crafts has in fact affected my kids in a negative way. For a long time I had them answer this constant question: What makes mommy crazy? “Messes make mommy crazy.” They would say.
I didn’t mean for them to internalize guilt for crafting and creating (what I saw as just another mess to clean up) but they did.
Now that they are in early and mid-elementary grades, they are so much more capable of the crafts and the clean-up! It was my fault in the first place to even trust a 3-year-old with scissors!
So, I’m making peace with crafts, and just committing to “try” lapbooking.
What is a Lapbook?
Imagine a science fair project board – you know the stand up cardboard display that the student decorates with all the facts, pictures, and reports they learned in the process of testing their project? Yes, take that and shrink it to fit inside a simple file folder – that’s a lapbook.
Let me tell you why I will be trying lapbooks this year:
- Because gluing all the extra papers associated with a unit into one place will help me with my I don’t like papers floating all over the house feeling.
- My school-aged kids are old enough to take ownership of their lapbooks. Meaning, I won’t be the one stuck at the table gluing, taping, and picking up scraps while they watch Sesame Street! They are able to get out the supplies (color-coded which eliminates the sharing-becomes-fighting noise) design their craft, and clean it all up while I play an audiobook for us to enjoy while sipping a cup of coffee.
- For keeping records and making memories. Why lapbooks? Because the notebooks we’ve created in the past have had this wonderful effect on the kids of drawing them back into the pages where they study the crafts, pictures, and reports they have written – learning and relearning all the important and fun facts.
They don’t care to pour over their old math workbooks, but they will want to have easy access to these lapbooks. So, I do need to designate a home for their lapbooks to live within reach.
Further resources for lapbooking:
- Erica of Confessions of a Homeschooler has a written a blog post on each of her Lapbooks that she created to go with her unit studies.
- Templates for Lapbooking are included in the Lapbooking Made Simple by Heidi St. John
- Homeschool Share is a great resource for unit studies and lapbooks:
- There are many Pinterest Boards on Lapbooking, I like this one: Lapbooking Made Easy
One final thought: I know I’ve made myself sound a little bit like a lunatic when it comes to crafting, and maybe you found yourself concerned for me or my kids. Let me tell you that even though I can write about it now in jest – it has taken me a long time to process the feelings that came from living like a “bad mom.” If you’re struggling to be your child’s safe place or you want to better determine what elements of education are important in your home, I recommend reading through the Parenting Purpose Statement.
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